gathering!

On the 20 dec we meet out dh army friend and his wife who click with me when we met around 1yr ago.. she the same kind as me.. same horoscope.. so we understand each other very well...

She is someone who loves kid and he know how to handle kids well.. although we only met 3times since the day we know each other but we still click..

We went to orchard.. The heeren for lunch the lunch is fabulous but dun kow exactly wat the name of the resaurant.. ds also enjoy the food there.. potato, crepe, chicken, and lots.. and i bought a banana from home for him to eat.. and he eat so big mouth... and can c that he enjoy himself that day although he nv nap enough for the day.. but at nite he sleep so soundly..

Now let's the pictures do all the talking... Enjoy..

Childcare

I had found a cheap child care at my new flat nearby.. $280 for full day and $210 for half day.. At first was thinking of placing him for a halfday care then nanny continue for another half but after seeing the prices dh say not worth it... so enrol ds to a full day... but i'm worried that he will cry and feel sad when i leave him to child care.. haiz.. but it's better bcos he will learn things that we nv teach... so have to ren xin let him go child care earlier to learn more and expose to more friends... cos he like to interact with kids.. That day we go shopping he saw a toddler like him standing he go and approach him and hug him lor.. but i carry him away after awhile cos he very rough scare he hurt the kid...

so after we move he will be in child care and i also have to rush from work to home and fetch him home.. which means no time to relax also.. nowonder ppl say having a kid is a long term sacrifice.. at first i thought when he older i can relax more but feel that more responsiblity.. haiz...

i just told nanny abt the child care thinggy and feel that she feels sad but she say it's ok.. cos he can learn more but for me i also feel sad if i in her shoe.. i did told her when she want to go and c him at child care can just let me know.. but my only worried is my IL keep going and bring him out then he will get used then when one day they nv go and c him he will feel sad.. haiz.. cos i read books they say kid heart is very cui rou one.. so very scare..

Happy nite at Basketball court!

Yesterday nite dh go down meet his friends for soccer game and he suggest me to bring ds along so i bring him down.. he was so happy walking here and there and dun even want me to hold him but he was like a drunken man walking and keep falling down and he was a dirty little piglet.. keep laughing and screaming and looking at the ball.. but he nv once sit down and relax keep walking here and there.. touching this and that.. all sweat.. even his clothes and pants r so dirty and even me also dirty cos i need to carry him and his shoes is full of dirty water.. And my whole packet of wang wang balls biscuit he play with his hands and make it all crush and his hand so dirty and he pour all the biscuits out of the plastic bag.. OMG.. but he was so happy seeing all the biscuit dropping out..

When we reach home it's already nearly 10 and i bring him to the toilet to wash hands, feets and face then change him drink milk and sleep.. and i think he enjoy himself too much that he is too tired.. sleep til 5plus then wake up for milk.. even when i bring him to nanny house he was still sleeping soundly..

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Suay family

Yesterday dh have company xmas party.. He lucky draw draw nothing and exchange present he also get a lousy plastic cup(anyay their gift only need to be 1 dollar and ds get his gift from MIL cos mil lots of xmas sweet wrap in hello kitty soft toy).. currently giving ds to play as his toy.. haha.. and he seems to enjoy so much.. And i tell dh we both no luck for lucky draw and all sort of drop from the sky stuff.. and he laugh.. and i tell him he is as suay as me.. But he get a silver trophy back as he team win first runner up in dun know wat competition..

So our conclusion is.. we r a family of suay suay and have to strive our own.. So sad.. but bo bian lah.. this is our life.. have to go through it as to get a better life in future for 3 of us or maybe 4 in the near future... hehe..


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Stay In Stay In again!!

Haiz.. Just receive dh call.. he told me next yr feb and mar got many stay in for duties.. From 19Feb til 4mar and it's fall on my birthday and ds 15 mth jab and my pap smear... have to do all this myself.. sian.. And from 11 mar til 25 mar also stay in for duties..and by then i already get the house keys and all i have to go and c c look look and c how the reno go.. OMG a woman like me have to settle boy and so many things myself.. feel like killing myself.. And most scary is i will be alone in the house of my IL and so boring.. haiz.. so many days added up is already 1 mth already..

Anyone to celebrate my birthday.. haha.. My darling will be the one to celebate with me.. dun know will he say happy birthday by then...

being a stay at home mummy!

I a stay at home mummy(sahm) for 5days... Feel so gd, enjoyable yet tired... Gd to c all his progress myself.. He can really walk well at home but when bring him out he dare not walk unless he c somethings he want... But also very tired cos have to follow him whenever u he go.. Even cook for him also have to hear him scream to get in to the kitchen.. When i settle down and decide to play with him he dun bother abt me but when i busy with cooking and washing all this he will come and disturb... Dun know to be angry or laughing..

But being a sahm is my dream of a perfect wife and mummy.. but financially i cannot do that... I did discuss with dh but he say cannot.. too shiong liao.. so bo bian i just have to be a working mummy... But hope ds will understand that we r earning money so that cannot take care of him myself... Maybe when i have #2 might consider being sahm.. hehe..

Just bring ds to hair cut last fri... He cry until tears and mucus all come out.. know can style his hair already... his daddy style for him... u c look like beckham anot... haha.. and he is having cough and sore throat... doctor say having redness in his throat... but now ok liao... coughing so hard for 3 days poor boy... but finally he is well...

I go to chinatown and bought 2sets of clothes for his new yr... Spend 60plus on him liao... now planning for mine and dh clothes and the biggest headache ANG BAO... so have to save for this few mth... and this mth end both our friend is having banquet... so headache... this few days saw dh we will talk mostly on money money and money...


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Progress of aloysius growing up

Aloysius on the day of his birthday suddenly cry to get out of the baby chair at the restaurant and wanted to get down and he hold my hands to walk around.. but is like a drunken boy walking but seeing his first step make me feel so happy and he keep smiling when he walking... but i feel so awkward to let him walk cos people will c that he still dun know how to walk but he keep screaming to get down for a walk.

On the day of his first birthday he is very happy as he keep smiling and seldom cry and i promise him that i will not scold him on the day and he is so naughty and i just tolerate for 1 day.. and he keep beating my flabby tummy so happily and pulling my hair like he know that i not going to scold him the whole day.. after the day of his birthday he was being afraid of so many things that he will not scare in the past 1 yr.. like bathing when the water reach his face he will scream which he used to enjoy in the past.. Maybe he already grow up and understand wat is not comfortable... but so happy to c him progress day by day...

Day after his birthday bring him for his 1yr jab... he only cry for awhile then stop and play with doc and nurses... And they say that he is a strong boy... and active boy.. everyone is saying that he is a active boy and i feel so headache.. haha...


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yeah..

Tomorrow is ds official 1yr old already... so excited and thinking where to bring him to... But too bad his father will not be around.. Still have not decide to bring him to which place where there r nice scenery to take photos and for him to play and enjoy his day... But a bad thing for him is that i bringing him for his injection... so poor thing..

I found a childcare for him near my new place... 290 for full day care.. cheap rite better than nanny.. hehe... but scare he get sick easier then i also headache.. haiz... so many things to trouble... Tomorrow go there and take a look and ask them things i like to know then can decide... I hoping to get him to school at 18mth after he start to walk and his time of napping is become more regular...

This 2 wk will have more time to accompany him as i'm on leave to look after him as his nanny going oversea... but i might die of exhaustion of scolding him and chasing him.. haha.. hope he will become more kuai.. I use his bday wish for my wish anyway he also dun know how to make wish... hehe..

Busy weekend...

Last saturday is a busy week for me... Morning wake up nv rest have to bath and feed ds... then wake my sis up and ask her to bring me to an interview at paragon after that at 2pm meet my friend at Taka.. and go and have a meal.. chit chat shopping awhile then rush to Looney's dd birthday party...

At the party.. at first feel very pai sei.. and ds really make me feel like digging a hole and hide into it... keep screaming and super hyperactive there.. others babies r so quiet and cute playing with their own things... and him keep snatching ppl toys... he keep snatching sharlaine pacifier... and made her cry... if dh is around he sure scolded by him one.. at around 10 looney and her dh send me back home make me more pai sei... even jayden also followed.. that day is so pai sei for me... but very enjoyable nite.. Too bad anthony cannot join...

When we reached home... My mum entertain him as i preparing to go for a bath then she shouted for me that he poo on the diaper and so i have to prepare his bath first.. after the bath play awhile as his energy is still there.. then let him had his milk then he gone to his sweet dreams...

when i tell anthony abt the party he was keep laughing and say ds where got make me pai sei.. he not there if he there's he also shouting at him one.. and he told me that he like Jayden alot... but nv say y.. maybe cute ba... cos i think he is cute and sweet compared to others boys... like aloysius won't even sai nai to me...

this fri or sat anthony will be back home...

PARTY!!!

Yesterday is aloysius 1st birthday party... He was so happy... Feel that he know that he had a birthday party.... He wake up at 7 in the morning.... and he catch a short nap at 10 plus... then at 11 he was awake and feel so happy... at 12 i change him into his new clothes and of course shoes...

At around 12 .30 most the guests arrived... and boy is so happy and he had a blur look on his face... but i also feel angry cos anthony relatives do stupid things... like giving boy bo bo char char (coconut) and putting cigarettes into his mouth.. but i really piss off and did told them not too do but they nv take my words in... sometimes really feel that boy being too close to anthony relatives is a bad influence... with all those bad language, betting of soccer and all sort of stupid things...

the party end around 4 plus then we take a bath... then unpack all the presents and ang bao... and boy is looking at us so curiously... but alot of the toys is not suitable for him now like guns, robots, some legos... after thatt we bring boy to IMM for a walk but he was sleeping throughout the shopping... me and anthony r the one enjoying shopping without disturbance.. hehe...

at 8 plus 9 ah boy is already so tired... it's his really busy day for him... and us...


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Finally...

Finally buffet is settled... my mother in law just called to order yesterday... at least she let me make decision but my father in law everything say not gd... then forget it i say anything lor... anyway i think i will get no time to eat also... hehe... finally aloysius can wear shoes liao... and his lip is back to nomal... make me sad and worried for so many days... finally all is over... and i promise myself to try my very best to make less accidents for him and protect him... but very hard lor... haha...

Anthony will be in camp from 17 nov to 25 nov... so cannot celebrate aloysius birthday on the day itself.. left me to celebrate for him only... but nvm lah... he promise to early celebrate for him next wk nite... so ok lah... but sian to be alone at home for more than a wk with his parents... always he not in they will say alot that i dun like one but i cannot talk back or complain to anyone... nvm lah... anyway used to it already... Happy Go Lucky!!

heart pain!!

Today aloysius knock his mouth and bleed so much... He was playing happily with a bath towel and suddenly he throw the towel and his face bang on the floor... and he cried... at first i thought he just hurt his fore head but nv hear a thud sound and my sis carried him and shout he bleeding and i rush to c and his mouth is flooded with blood and i dun know wat to so called my mum for help as she is bathing... And my mum apply sugar to stop the bleeding when he taste the sweetness he stop crying and feel more happy... His lips was swollen and he take his nap... after his nap not so swolen already and i so scare that he du want to drink or eat but luckily he's ok... drink and eat and played so happily... Dun know why other babies will not get hurt so easily but he keep hurting himself... is it that i din take care of him properly... but i was just letting him play his own... now having phobia liao... Haiz... feel so sad and sad that boy is so poor thing to be my son...

so happy... FLATS!

I finally get a flat of mine and Anthony... Feeling so happy but i know we will have more financially problems... But we have calculated... we have enough just that have to save abit for rainy days... and now we r planning abt money everyday... i tired of planning... Seem like i more happy than Anthony but from how he act i can see that he is as happy as i do... Cos we finally have our own house...

As for Aloysius he is 11 mth old but not yet taken his monthly photos for October cos he dun let me shoot... He know how to pass those things that he want to eat to me like asking me to open for him... But feel like he is getting overweight seeing how he eat at nanny place... morning eat 1 egg then bath liao milk and sleep... then wake up at market eat abit junks and go home porridge then sleep again... OMG... Later he become big fat boy... haha

Aloysius can stand...

Aloysius can stand on his own without support and for very long before he sit down... He like to take his potty and push it and walk here and there and stand up happily clapping hands and turn and smile at me... Feeling that he really grow up and he is praising himself by clapping hands when he stand on his own... He can walk just 2-3 step towards me... He seems scared... So i was thinking to let him develop by himself... As my il like to force him to walk and he will cry so pathetic...

Just bought 2 shoes and 1 set of clothes for his 1st birthday..

Headache!!

Aloysius birthday party is just round the corner... We will be organising on 11 nov Sunday... Wanted to do it on Saturday but Dh no time liao cos having courses and duty... Just order birthday at Prima deli... $108 feel so expensive cos we r currently no spare money as dh help friend to pay off debt... And haven add in the buffet cost and decoration cost will cost me a bomb... But for ds no choice as FIL insist on doing it...
And ds fell down from bed last friday cry until so loud... Feel so sad... but luckily he's ok... With smile on his face after a nap and bought a shoe for him...
Next tue is my flat selection day... Hope there r the one we want... Praying very hard for this... Finally dh agree to move out and rent out and earn money... Feel so happy... But i know more financial problem will arise but no choice and we need our own house...For better future...
Hope have gd news...

Hi, All mummies

Hi, all mummies... This is my new blog spot... Like wat u all say this is like a journal to our life... I still trying to make this blog as i a computer idiot...