gathering!

On the 20 dec we meet out dh army friend and his wife who click with me when we met around 1yr ago.. she the same kind as me.. same horoscope.. so we understand each other very well...

She is someone who loves kid and he know how to handle kids well.. although we only met 3times since the day we know each other but we still click..

We went to orchard.. The heeren for lunch the lunch is fabulous but dun kow exactly wat the name of the resaurant.. ds also enjoy the food there.. potato, crepe, chicken, and lots.. and i bought a banana from home for him to eat.. and he eat so big mouth... and can c that he enjoy himself that day although he nv nap enough for the day.. but at nite he sleep so soundly..

Now let's the pictures do all the talking... Enjoy..

Childcare

I had found a cheap child care at my new flat nearby.. $280 for full day and $210 for half day.. At first was thinking of placing him for a halfday care then nanny continue for another half but after seeing the prices dh say not worth it... so enrol ds to a full day... but i'm worried that he will cry and feel sad when i leave him to child care.. haiz.. but it's better bcos he will learn things that we nv teach... so have to ren xin let him go child care earlier to learn more and expose to more friends... cos he like to interact with kids.. That day we go shopping he saw a toddler like him standing he go and approach him and hug him lor.. but i carry him away after awhile cos he very rough scare he hurt the kid...

so after we move he will be in child care and i also have to rush from work to home and fetch him home.. which means no time to relax also.. nowonder ppl say having a kid is a long term sacrifice.. at first i thought when he older i can relax more but feel that more responsiblity.. haiz...

i just told nanny abt the child care thinggy and feel that she feels sad but she say it's ok.. cos he can learn more but for me i also feel sad if i in her shoe.. i did told her when she want to go and c him at child care can just let me know.. but my only worried is my IL keep going and bring him out then he will get used then when one day they nv go and c him he will feel sad.. haiz.. cos i read books they say kid heart is very cui rou one.. so very scare..

Happy nite at Basketball court!

Yesterday nite dh go down meet his friends for soccer game and he suggest me to bring ds along so i bring him down.. he was so happy walking here and there and dun even want me to hold him but he was like a drunken man walking and keep falling down and he was a dirty little piglet.. keep laughing and screaming and looking at the ball.. but he nv once sit down and relax keep walking here and there.. touching this and that.. all sweat.. even his clothes and pants r so dirty and even me also dirty cos i need to carry him and his shoes is full of dirty water.. And my whole packet of wang wang balls biscuit he play with his hands and make it all crush and his hand so dirty and he pour all the biscuits out of the plastic bag.. OMG.. but he was so happy seeing all the biscuit dropping out..

When we reach home it's already nearly 10 and i bring him to the toilet to wash hands, feets and face then change him drink milk and sleep.. and i think he enjoy himself too much that he is too tired.. sleep til 5plus then wake up for milk.. even when i bring him to nanny house he was still sleeping soundly..

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Suay family

Yesterday dh have company xmas party.. He lucky draw draw nothing and exchange present he also get a lousy plastic cup(anyay their gift only need to be 1 dollar and ds get his gift from MIL cos mil lots of xmas sweet wrap in hello kitty soft toy).. currently giving ds to play as his toy.. haha.. and he seems to enjoy so much.. And i tell dh we both no luck for lucky draw and all sort of drop from the sky stuff.. and he laugh.. and i tell him he is as suay as me.. But he get a silver trophy back as he team win first runner up in dun know wat competition..

So our conclusion is.. we r a family of suay suay and have to strive our own.. So sad.. but bo bian lah.. this is our life.. have to go through it as to get a better life in future for 3 of us or maybe 4 in the near future... hehe..


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Stay In Stay In again!!

Haiz.. Just receive dh call.. he told me next yr feb and mar got many stay in for duties.. From 19Feb til 4mar and it's fall on my birthday and ds 15 mth jab and my pap smear... have to do all this myself.. sian.. And from 11 mar til 25 mar also stay in for duties..and by then i already get the house keys and all i have to go and c c look look and c how the reno go.. OMG a woman like me have to settle boy and so many things myself.. feel like killing myself.. And most scary is i will be alone in the house of my IL and so boring.. haiz.. so many days added up is already 1 mth already..

Anyone to celebrate my birthday.. haha.. My darling will be the one to celebate with me.. dun know will he say happy birthday by then...

being a stay at home mummy!

I a stay at home mummy(sahm) for 5days... Feel so gd, enjoyable yet tired... Gd to c all his progress myself.. He can really walk well at home but when bring him out he dare not walk unless he c somethings he want... But also very tired cos have to follow him whenever u he go.. Even cook for him also have to hear him scream to get in to the kitchen.. When i settle down and decide to play with him he dun bother abt me but when i busy with cooking and washing all this he will come and disturb... Dun know to be angry or laughing..

But being a sahm is my dream of a perfect wife and mummy.. but financially i cannot do that... I did discuss with dh but he say cannot.. too shiong liao.. so bo bian i just have to be a working mummy... But hope ds will understand that we r earning money so that cannot take care of him myself... Maybe when i have #2 might consider being sahm.. hehe..

Just bring ds to hair cut last fri... He cry until tears and mucus all come out.. know can style his hair already... his daddy style for him... u c look like beckham anot... haha.. and he is having cough and sore throat... doctor say having redness in his throat... but now ok liao... coughing so hard for 3 days poor boy... but finally he is well...

I go to chinatown and bought 2sets of clothes for his new yr... Spend 60plus on him liao... now planning for mine and dh clothes and the biggest headache ANG BAO... so have to save for this few mth... and this mth end both our friend is having banquet... so headache... this few days saw dh we will talk mostly on money money and money...


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